Coming out is hard to do ... and there are some amazing stories collected here, from all walks of life, all over Earth. Please consider sharing your story, whether you came out yourself, or somebody else came out to you. For both interviews, there's a standard set of questions plus plenty of space for you to add anything you like, just use either of the aforementioned links - thanks. The interviews are published here and on a South African LGBTQI portal called QueerLife - big ups to them for hosting the online form and supporting the project - don't forget to visit them and see your story there.

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mayjbird

Posted by ulla on Wednesday, December 30, 2009, In : Lesbian

Name/nickname: mayjbird
Gender: female
What did you come out as (gay, bi, transgendered, use any terms you like here)? dyke
What other words would you use to describe yourself? queer
How old were you when you first realized your identity? probably end of grade school
How old were you when you first told someone? When I was 13 years old.
Did you plan it? If so, how? I didn't, but I'm glad it wasn't pre-meditated... I might have chickened out.
What made you choose that person to tell? I was in an all...

A few South African perspectives on coming out to the kids

Posted by ulla on Wednesday, May 27, 2009, In : Coming out to the kids

I asked members of a local forum to tell me what it was like to come out to their kids. If anyone out (or even not out) there wants to comment or share stuff, please feel free; you can either use the comment thingy under each post or you can use to contact form. Anonymity guaranteed if that is what you need. I have some more of these stories on the way too - plus, as ever, please consider doing the general far-too-linear coming out interview as well - add anything you like to it and ignore...

Jonno

Posted by ulla on Saturday, April 18, 2009, In : Gay

Country & city: Reading, England
Age: 35
Gender: Male
What did you come out as (gay, bi, transgendered, use any terms you like here)? Gay
What other words would you use to describe yourself? Queer
How old were you when you first realized your identity? About 7 or 8
How old were you when you first told someone? 18
Did you plan it? If so, how? The BBC were making a documentary about gay people coming out, I plucked up the courage to tell one of the BBC people having called the number given out. Her na...

Ulla Kelly

Posted by ulla on Saturday, February 28, 2009, In : Queer

Country & city: Eastern Cape, South Africa
Name/nickname: Ulla Kelly
Age: 38
Gender: cisgendered female
What did you come out as (gay, bi, transgendered)? gay/lesbian
What other words would you use to describe yourself? boi, butch, dyke, woman, human being
How old were you when you first realized your identity? As a small kid, I think I suspected it - by the time I was a teenager, I was pretty sure.
How old were you when you first told someone? 21 ish
Did you plan it? If so, how? No plan except a bo...

Trailer Park Queer

Posted by ulla on Saturday, February 28, 2009, In : Queer

Country & city: Asheville, NC, US
Name/nickname: Trailer Park Queer
Age:26
Gender: Genderqueer
What did you come out as (gay, bi, transgendered)? To my mom, lesbian, to myself and the world, queer.
What other words would you use to describe yourself? Queer, dyke, genderqueer
How old were you when you first realized your identity? 18
How old were you when you first told someone? 18
Did you plan it? If so, how? I really didn't. I was visiting my mom home from college for a day in the Fall of my sophomo...