Evie
Posted by ulla on Monday, February 23, 2009
Under: Lesbian
Name or Nick Name : evie
Country or City you are from: : england
Your Age : 21
Your Gender : female
What did you come out as? : Lesbian
What other words would you use to describe yourself? : funny sarcastic loud and tall lol
How old were you when you first realised your identity? : not sure i think bout 11 or 12
How old were you when you first told someone? : 19
Did you plan it? If so, how? : no just hanging out with my best mate and i said something that made her ask are you gay? i didn’t feel the need to lie anymore
What made you choose that person to tell? : didnt choose but i guess i just trusted her enough to tell her.
Can you remember exactly what you said? : we were watching ghost whisperer and i said without meaning to Jennifer love Hewitt is well fucking hot.
How did you feel? : a hell of a lot better huge sense a relief
What was the person’s reaction? : shocked but fine with it
What did they say? : best mate: No fucking way! not bothered or anything but you are the last person a expected to be gay
What was your relationship with the person like afterwards? : still the same
What’s it like now? : not friends anymore
If you’ve been outed unwillingly, who did it? :
What happened? :
What were peoples’ reactions? :
If you’ve experienced homophobia etc, please give an example. :
Since coming out how out are you at school? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you at work? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with family? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with your friends? : all_out
What does being out mean to you? : not having to lie and pretend anymore and being a lot more happy with things.
What differences, if any, did your cultural background make to your experience of coming out? : not really any
What does the concept of the closet mean to you? :
What advice would you give someone wanting to come out? :
If you could do it all again, would you do it any differently? If so, how? : id tell my mom first
Country or City you are from: : england
Your Age : 21
Your Gender : female
What did you come out as? : Lesbian
What other words would you use to describe yourself? : funny sarcastic loud and tall lol
How old were you when you first realised your identity? : not sure i think bout 11 or 12
How old were you when you first told someone? : 19
Did you plan it? If so, how? : no just hanging out with my best mate and i said something that made her ask are you gay? i didn’t feel the need to lie anymore
What made you choose that person to tell? : didnt choose but i guess i just trusted her enough to tell her.
Can you remember exactly what you said? : we were watching ghost whisperer and i said without meaning to Jennifer love Hewitt is well fucking hot.
How did you feel? : a hell of a lot better huge sense a relief
What was the person’s reaction? : shocked but fine with it
What did they say? : best mate: No fucking way! not bothered or anything but you are the last person a expected to be gay
What was your relationship with the person like afterwards? : still the same
What’s it like now? : not friends anymore
If you’ve been outed unwillingly, who did it? :
What happened? :
What were peoples’ reactions? :
If you’ve experienced homophobia etc, please give an example. :
Since coming out how out are you at school? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you at work? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with family? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with your friends? : all_out
What does being out mean to you? : not having to lie and pretend anymore and being a lot more happy with things.
What differences, if any, did your cultural background make to your experience of coming out? : not really any
What does the concept of the closet mean to you? :
What advice would you give someone wanting to come out? :
If you could do it all again, would you do it any differently? If so, how? : id tell my mom first
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