Cale Hoare
Posted by ulla on Sunday, February 22, 2009
Under: Gay
Name or Nick Name : Hot-zn ( cale hoare )
Country or City you are from: : South Africa, Durban
Your Age : 24
Your Gender : Male
What did you come out as? : Gay
What other words would you use to describe yourself? : One of a kind…! Just got to meet me..!!!
How old were you when you first realised your identity? : 15
How old were you when you first told someone? : 16
Did you plan it? If so, how? : Nope
What made you choose that person to tell? : Only gay friend at the time
Can you remember exactly what you said? : nope
How did you feel? : GREAT…!!!
What was the person’s reaction? : He knew LOL..!
What did they say? : Can’t remember was not that exciting obviously.
What was your relationship with the person like afterwards? : got better started going to gay events …!!! LIFE BEGAN.
What’s it like now? : Could not be better and oh I have the hottest boyfriend…!!! WOW. im so lucky.
If you’ve been outed unwillingly, who did it? : Self inflicted… Left a gayboy shirt in my closet and mother found it and started asking questions then the gay friends of mine all made sense too.. HAHA DURR.
What happened? : I denied it at first then came out and said yes after she asked me the second time in a row… haha.. :)
What were peoples’ reactions? : mom was astounded but got over it quickly and now treats me equal and normal to everythinga and everyone. father i moved out of home for 2 weeks for the news to settle down with him…
If you’ve experienced homophobia etc, please give an example. : At school only but nothing I could not handle… I just really felt sorry for those sad sad uneducated fools, that have insecurity issues about themselves..!
Since coming out how out are you at school? : not_applicable
Since coming out, how “out” are you at work? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with family? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with your friends? : all_out
What does being out mean to you? : I can live my life the way I want to…!
What differences, if any, did your cultural background make to your experience of coming out? : nothing…!!!
What does the concept of the closet mean to you? : Hiding your identity of being in the closet or comin out…!
What advice would you give someone wanting to come out? : make sure you have supporting foundations around you should anything happen to go wrong try leaving home first.. HAHA. Someone that will help you in any situation..
If you could do it all again, would you do it any differently? If so, how? : Nope not going through that all over again I won’t lie.. Im happy now that the dust has settled and everyone has excepted it even my father…!!!
Anything you want to add? : LIFE IS GREAT…!!! But gay people gossip way to much about small issues worse than women fuck sakes what happened to all the men out there… Wait..Is that not why we are gay ?
Country or City you are from: : South Africa, Durban
Your Age : 24
Your Gender : Male
What did you come out as? : Gay
What other words would you use to describe yourself? : One of a kind…! Just got to meet me..!!!
How old were you when you first realised your identity? : 15
How old were you when you first told someone? : 16
Did you plan it? If so, how? : Nope
What made you choose that person to tell? : Only gay friend at the time
Can you remember exactly what you said? : nope
How did you feel? : GREAT…!!!
What was the person’s reaction? : He knew LOL..!
What did they say? : Can’t remember was not that exciting obviously.
What was your relationship with the person like afterwards? : got better started going to gay events …!!! LIFE BEGAN.
What’s it like now? : Could not be better and oh I have the hottest boyfriend…!!! WOW. im so lucky.
If you’ve been outed unwillingly, who did it? : Self inflicted… Left a gayboy shirt in my closet and mother found it and started asking questions then the gay friends of mine all made sense too.. HAHA DURR.
What happened? : I denied it at first then came out and said yes after she asked me the second time in a row… haha.. :)
What were peoples’ reactions? : mom was astounded but got over it quickly and now treats me equal and normal to everythinga and everyone. father i moved out of home for 2 weeks for the news to settle down with him…
If you’ve experienced homophobia etc, please give an example. : At school only but nothing I could not handle… I just really felt sorry for those sad sad uneducated fools, that have insecurity issues about themselves..!
Since coming out how out are you at school? : not_applicable
Since coming out, how “out” are you at work? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with family? : all_out
Since coming out, how “out” are you with your friends? : all_out
What does being out mean to you? : I can live my life the way I want to…!
What differences, if any, did your cultural background make to your experience of coming out? : nothing…!!!
What does the concept of the closet mean to you? : Hiding your identity of being in the closet or comin out…!
What advice would you give someone wanting to come out? : make sure you have supporting foundations around you should anything happen to go wrong try leaving home first.. HAHA. Someone that will help you in any situation..
If you could do it all again, would you do it any differently? If so, how? : Nope not going through that all over again I won’t lie.. Im happy now that the dust has settled and everyone has excepted it even my father…!!!
Anything you want to add? : LIFE IS GREAT…!!! But gay people gossip way to much about small issues worse than women fuck sakes what happened to all the men out there… Wait..Is that not why we are gay ?
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