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The Joys of Lesbianism

Posted by ulla on Tuesday, March 24, 2009, In : dyke dating rituals

I write a whole heap of stuff taking the piss out of us, the lesbian community and a whole heap about the stereotypes – but it occurred to me that I don't write so much about the good stuff. And there is so much good stuff.

Do you remember when you first worked out you were a lesbian? Maybe the best part is the first time you do something about it … wasn't that experience just like coming home? Suddenly the jigsaw's all together perfectly, making the most beautiful image.

How about falli...

Seduce Her

Posted by ulla on Saturday, February 28, 2009, In : hot lesbian sex

(orig. published by MambaGirl.com)

Seduction doesn’t need to be about flowers, candlelight and sleazy, cheesy music. Not that any of those things are intrinsically bad, just a little trite in that context.

Despite the gentle persuasion and arousal involved, it doesn’t work without tacit permission from whomever you’re trying to seduce either. It doesn’t need to be planned. It doesn’t need to be “performed” by only one of the people involved.

The first step in seduction would be t...

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Ulla Kelly

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Weekly columnist for Q back when it was owned by the Mail & Guardian, regular columnist for Queerlife in 2008, as well as contributing to MambaGirl, Cherrygrrl, Gayspeak and other websites, I decided it was about time I collected it all in one place, so I can see what I've done and hopefully keep doing new stuff.