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That's "Sir" Dyke to You!

Posted by ulla on Tuesday, July 7, 2009, In : dykestyle 


I get called sir by cabin crew and petrol pump attendants and business contacts and, well just lots of people.  It happens to me face to face and on the phone too.  As a young kid I was mistaken for a boy a few times and was highly delighted - my Famous Five hero was always George.  I'm sure I've said it before, but there was one memorable time when I was 23 and a guy shook my hand and congratulated me on being brave enough and man enough to wear a skirt.  I've never been particularly uncomfo...

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Et in Arcadia ... Eden!

Posted by ulla on Monday, April 6, 2009, In : queer 


Arcadia is an industrial suburb of East London, in the Eastern Cape - a "city" which is pretty much ignored by the world and certainly by the gay media, because it's little and rather faded around the edges and entirely lacking in glamour.  All of those things are also what make it an incredibly cool place to be.

If you came to visit, I'd take you to Club Eden; down a dark back street (that euphemism may even appeal to some) and only very gently signposted and through the bars of its security ...

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Natural Born Dyke

Posted by ulla on Saturday, February 28, 2009, In : stereotypes 
(orig. published by QueerLife & Cherrygrrl)

Write something from a dyke perspective, they reckon … what’s that? I suppose I have a permanent lesbian’s eye view, being a lesbian and all, but what makes it different to heterovision?

Through the glass dyke-ly I see a world that’s far too diverse to bother with closets, but we do. Everyone has secrets. When Michael Stipe came out he said he was fed up being made to feel guilty, when he wasn’t ashamed of being gay, he just wanted to keep...


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If it walks like a dyke ...

Posted by ulla on Friday, February 27, 2009, In : stereotypes 
By Ulla Kelly

I keep attempting to disprove stereotypes about dykes in these columns, but the truth is that there are some I cheerfully conform to.

Short hair – check. It’s still extremely short after being shaved right off and I love it. I feel confident and in control with short hair and I reckon it suits me too. I have also, while being a fully functioning dyke, had very long hair. I just find it annoying and yes, I enjoy the fact that I’m easily identified as gay. Even when I’m be...


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Designing Dykes

Posted by ulla on Monday, February 23, 2009, In : dykestyle 

Image “Write a column on dyke fashion!” said the ed. I immediately thought of the column I wrote years ago where I would beg and plead and whinge at lesbians to get some fashion sense. In the years since, I've decided not to care. Dykes are not a badly dressed group of people, they're just a minority and therefore easy to pick on. I want to state right here and now that I have never ever seen a lesbian wearing dungarees – and while I have seen plenty (myself included) in checked shirts, I've...


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Weekly columnist for Q back when it was owned by the Mail & Guardian, regular columnist for Queerlife in 2008, as well as contributing to MambaGirl, Cherrygrrl, Gayspeak and other websites, I decided it was about time I collected it all in one place, so I can see what I've done and hopefully keep doing new stuff.

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