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The Things Straight People Say

Posted by ulla on Friday, March 6, 2009, In : queer 
But why do gay people have to go on about it so much?

People say that so rationally, so calmly that it almost seems reasonable to me too.  And then I think.  I think about pink triangles and black ones in concentration camps and Michael Causer and Matthew Shepherd and the two murdered Soweto lesbians and all the victims we'll never even hear about.  That's why – that's it.  The rest of us cannot shut up until those people are safe, until kids aren't getting bullied for it in schools, until l...

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What is Lesbian Foreplay Anyway??

Posted by ulla on Saturday, February 28, 2009, In : hot lesbian sex 
(orig published by MambaGirl.com)

I’ve been asking the same question for years.  What the hell is foreplay in lesbian terms?  See, I assume that for straight people, foreplay is anything before penetration – I could be wrong there, but I don’t want to be educated about it thanks.  Some of my best friends are heterosexual and they’re a bit like the Discovery Channel for me, but there are limits.  They’re entitled to respect, dignity and privacy.  Also, i don’t think they appreciate ...

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Lesbian Phone Sex

Posted by ulla on Saturday, February 28, 2009, In : hot lesbian sex 
(orig. published on MambaGirl.com)

Ah phone sex … not the kind you have to pay for, where the “lesbian” on the other end is probably just a bored housewife in her flannel pyjamas, but real phone sex, with a real lesbian. A real phone too. Bearing that in mind, there are two possibilities i.e. sex with someone you know and sex with someone you don’t know.

Phone sex works better using a hands free kit or an old fashioned handset – not because you’re going to have sex with the phone,...


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Weekly columnist for Q back when it was owned by the Mail & Guardian, regular columnist for Queerlife in 2008, as well as contributing to MambaGirl, Cherrygrrl, Gayspeak and other websites, I decided it was about time I collected it all in one place, so I can see what I've done and hopefully keep doing new stuff.
Somewhere along the way, I got a severe case of the Tumblrs ...
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