I took that photo in East London the other day, sniggering.  I wondered which headline would scare South African lesbians most; swine flu or being haunted by girlfriends?  On the whole, I think I'd rather have the swine flu, thank you.  That said, most of my excess of exes seem to be delightfully benign these days and I am certainly not stalking any old flames myself, so perhaps I am immune, for now at least. 

Why is it that great friendships are so very simple and comfortable, but girlfriend...

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