I suppose I keep on asking that question, because I have firm opinions about it and I wish everyone agreed with me.  Obviously they don’t – and why on earth should they?  After starting the Coming Out Stories project, I began to interview queer artists and celebrities and the above question is one I pretty much always include.  I also decided to ask the question on the coming out blog and also canvas a few hundred of my close personal Facebook contacts.  It’s not even a remotely r...